BDSM or Cuffs and Leashes

A guy goes to a kinky BDSM party, where he witnesses an elaborate sex play, including puppy masks, rimming, bondage, electrosex, etc.

I'm not a big fan of BDSM, I hate pain and I don't associate it with pleasure, especially sexual pleasure. However, I like wearing a collar and being on a leash, i.e. being walked around like a puppy. Sometimes I enjoy having an artificial dog‘s or pig‘s tail stuck in my ass. Occasionally, I‘m into putting on a leather dog‘s mask and playing a pooch. Such is my ultra-light BDSM play. I adore being pissed and spat upon, but not in a humiliating way, just out of sexual arousal and naughtiness. I‘d hate being tied up, chained to a radiator with my hands behind my back, when I have no control at all. It‘s not my thing if someone slapped me on the butt with a whip, or struck my penis, or squeezed it hard, twisted it, put a cockring that was too small, or poured cold water on it from a hose. I'm scared to even think about electrosex. I am a "coward" in this regard, and to BDSM masters and veterans, I am a pussyboy from a kindergarten.

Nonetheless, I am curious and interested to see the way real professionals engage in BDSM play. There are undoubtedly such groups in any larger city, so one night I went to see the "interesting things."

I saw so many different pain-inducing toys that I couldn't even imagine. Fluffy ones for the start, then leather, chain, steel, glass. Many doms handled whips, canes and paddles, while their subs, tied by the neck onto leashes, crawled on all fours at their feet, whimpering, squealing, panting, licking their masters‘ feet and shoes. The subs were wearing body harnesses and chest straps, and many had animal tails inserted into their anuses with extremely wide anal plugs at the ends. They sported masks of dinosaurs, dogs, pigs, bunnies, which looked cute and seductive. In addition to this mandatory "equipment," some of the most loyal BDSM enthusiasts had protective knee and elbow pads – how else could they crawl on a hard surface for a long time without hurting themselves?

I was particularly fascinated by the pooch paws and cattle hooves, which resembled boxing gloves. I could look at these "animals" forever. The pooches and colts kept jumping at each other, fighting with their paws and/or hooves, wrestling, rolling around. Only their tails were wagging in the air. Everyone greatly enjoyed this kind of entertainment and the audience cheered on the „fighters“ in the ring. Someone poured oil or lubricant over the floor and the puppies and foals began to slide, roll over on their sides and wrestle lying down; their bodies glistened with grease, whereas their muscles and contours looked even sexier.

Many of the performances were filmed, photographed and later uploaded onto specific websites. Evidently, some people make a living on this.

Eventually, the "animals" took off their masks, unzipped their fetish jockstraps and began fighting and rubbing against each other with their erect penises. Later, they started sucking and thrusting their private parts into each other's throats. The audience went wild; some even dared to try it themselves. During the action, one "animal" even had its tail slip out of his ass – the plug was so wide that the asshole gaped open as if after a good fisting session, unable to close. After that spectacle I wanted to get my own artificial dog‘s head. I've had a tail for a long time, but I don't use it very often.

Other "obedient" participants were disciplined with canes or even serious, twisted whips and paddles. Their pretty little butts suffered the most as the redness on the butt cheeks testified; some had sore sides or even balls, which I would not wish on myself. Those being whipped made sounds similar to orgasm – apparently, they delighted in it. Some of them were abused with most dirty talk, which increased their kicks.
Others had giant anal plugs or dildo "sticks" shoved into their holes – literally too big for them. I could see genuine pain on their faces, even though the doms worked carefully and neatly. The subs seemed to indulge in the pain of their assholes almost torn apart. Or maybe they have a goal of becoming fisting stars or rosebud champions?

To be honest, I witnessed rosebuds (anal prolapse) of all degrees, sizes and shapes. Some sucked and licked the protruding end of the rectum, inserted their tongues inside, or even put a ring on the rectum, thus emphasizing the "bud" and preventing it from shrinking back into the anus. Others would fuck such a rosebud with their cocks, fingers or vibrators.

Another area I am unfamiliar with was urethral dilators. Metal or plastic straws/tubes – smooth, ribbed, wavy or even flared – were inserted into the urethra all the way down. Some ended in a cross, and urine was was spouting through the holes at their ends. Honestly, one guy inserted a pen into his urethra. Then those pipes were pushed out of the dick, popping out nicely. Some people used them to fuck their tools like miniature dildos. Several cockholes were so stretched that one could stick one‘s little finger into them. These cocks were also tied up or chained on leashes. They were not treated very delicately.

Other participants had their nipples pinched with special clamps decorated with chains, sometimes attached to the penis. Nipples were being tweaked, bitten, sucked with rubber suckers; nipple piercings (nipple rings) were attached to chains. From time to time electricity was applied to them.

Many BDSM men pumped their penises with penis pumps – manual, mechanical or electric. Some kept the pumped cock for as long as possible to increase its size.

Many of the "tortured" submissives wore animals‘, robbers‘ or other plastic/rubber/silicone masks on their heads, often with black dominoes. In most cases, their mouths were gagged with a ball. Still others wore black rubber or leather gloves up to their elbows (especially fisting enthusiasts) and walked around wearing rubber socks so as not to slip on the cocktail of urine, semen, oil and lubricant.

Some participants were wrapped in transparent rubber or mesh "body stockings." Others had masks on their heads with a funnel attached to their mouths – the active partner urinates into it, and the passive one is forced to swallow the urine as the mask is airtight; otherwise the „liquid gold“ from the funnel would cover his nose and eyes. Perhaps the tube goes straight into the throat. I have seen quite a few submissives thus gagging, retching and choking. None of them expressed dissatisfaction with their body language, saying enough is enough. Perhaps for lovers of extreme fetish experiences, one could even excrete liquid shit into that funnel and they would swallow it without a fuss. It occured to me that these people enjoy sex as much as they enjoy being severely mistreated and punished. That‘s not to say anything bad about them.

Apart from the masks mentioned, the BDSM participants' fancy face covers turned out to be a very sexy thing too – covering the upper part of the face, like those of Batman or RoboCop, or covering the lower part of the face, like those of Shredder from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. I prefer the lower face masks with holes, spikes, diamonds and other decorations. I borrowed one and took a photo of myself wearing it. I looked like a stylish street hooligan, maybe a goth. I'm planning to buy an accessory like that too.
Some of the subs were fastened to the bed, or their legs were tied to their hands. They couldn't resist at all, so doms and other men did whatever they pleased with them: a dozen people fucked them in the ass or mouth, played with their tied-up dicks, tickled their armpits or soles, rode on their faces, dripped candle wax on their bodies, or ran ice cubes over them. Their skin was red from all the abuse.

In one room a man tied up with ropes was doused with water, his penis beaten with a gushing stream from a hose. Buckets of cold water were poured over his head. A dildo was inserted into his anus, and his cock was being jacked off.

I particularly liked one accessory used by the BDSM community: the rim chair. It resembles a toilet seat – one sits on it, the buttocks spread apart and the asshole is up for deep licking and fucking with the tongue. There was one "full-time" asslicker there. He would put his head under the rim chair and lick the asses of all those sitting down. They would moan with pleasure, feeling as if on a divine throne.

I sat down too. Feeling the first obscenely professional licks, I was almost over the moon with the whole rim chair. He licked my hole very thoroughly and wetly – there was no need to wash it beforehand. I intend to purchase such a "magical" chair myself.

What I also liked was a chair – throne with an anal plug, on which one can move, jump, twist one‘s hips, wiggle and otherwise pamper one‘s dark hole.

Perhaps the most gruesome thing to me was electrosex. Electrodes were attached to the "victim's" penis, nipples, occasionally to the tongue or less sensitive parts. The body, especially the area with the electrodes attached, had been smeared with a lubricant. Then a stronger or weaker electric current was applied, always within safety limits. The "electrified" submissive jerked, shouted, writhed, trembled and sometimes moaned lustfully. Later, a metal rod was inserted into his hole to give him the best climax possible.

I would be terrified; I would never agree to have my most sensitive and precious parts treated this way. However, this electro-sex enthusiast eventually ejaculated all over himself, further moistening the electrodes, probably shaken even more by the electric current into the divine orgasm.

My games are different: they involve buttholes, farts, dicks and bodily fluids. I also like to play a proctologist: examining the anus from the inside, observing what the rectum looks like and how it throbs. As I have discovered, they are not that extreme and rather vanilla. However, I have picked up some useful tips from BDSM sex culture/subculture: revealing outfits, body harnesses, dog head masks, collars and leashes, puppy role-play, and not least a rimming chair.

Lo, I‘ve got an idea: taking advice from that old anecdote, when my sex partner needs a small gift for his birthday, I'll put it in my ass and hide it there. Then I'll push it out into his hands from inside of me, or rather tell him to stick his fingers into my hole to dig out the present, and when he does, I'll proudly sing "HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!" 😊.