My Dad Exposes my Sexuality

My dad found out I like other guys and not just girls and told my whole family and made my life a whole nightmare.

Hello I’m Manny. I'm a 20 year old chubby Latino boy, bisexual, short (5’3). I found out I was bisexual when I was in middle school but it was when I was a freshman in high school when I came true to myself and followed what really attracted me. I first came out to my second oldest sister (Jenni) when I was a junior in high school because she’s the only person I truly trust and she proves that by never telling anyone about me being bisexual. Then it was my oldest sister (Bri) who technically found out about it because she caught me kissing my best friend Andrew (my bf). My everyone in my family know Andrew as just my best friend besides my two older sisters.

Fast forward to March of this year and Andrew is at my house all alone so I decided to make love with him and gave him a blowjob. Ten minutes go by and I guess we didn’t hear the front door open due to the moans and groans from the two of us, my dad bursts into my room. I jump in shock as I see my dad’s face who’s really disappointed to what he just saw. “It’s not what you think dad please let me explain,” I said to him (obviously in Spanish since he really doesn’t speak English and I don’t want to write it on Spanish then translate it). “I saw enough. Get out of my house now before things get worse Andrew,” my dad said. Andrew rushes to get dressed and sprints out the door and leaves.

“So this what you mean by best friend,” my dad yelled at me. “Please dad let me explain it’s not what it looked like,” I said trying to defend myself even though there really wasn’t anything to say nor do. “There’s nothing to explain. You know what to do when someone breaks my rules in my house,” he told me. So I grab my pillow and bend over on the edge of my bed. While I did that instead of grabbing my belt like usual, my dad got a long thick, holdable stick and started whipping my ass. I used my pillow to cover my cries because if he heard me crying he would’ve whipped me harder. For like 5-10 ten minutes he was whipping me for every word he said.

He was lecturing me on how I broke his rules and how much he dislikes the LGBTQ+ community. I tried my best not move at all but my shaky knees kept making me fall a few times. “I’m sorry dad,” cried to him. He stops and storms out my room. Once gone I break down crying and wait for my sisters to get home since they were out shopping with my mom. When they arrived Jenni came into my room and found me crying. “What’s going on with you brother,” she questioned me. “Dad found out about me being bisexual,” I replied.

“He started whipping you didn’t he,” Jenni said. “A lot and very hard. He used that stick on the floor,” I told her as I began to cry again. She hugs me and gives me a kiss on the cheek telling she’s has my back same with our oldest sister and walks away. I decided to take a nap so I can forget about the pain my ass had. Four to five hours later my mom calls me for dinner. I slowly walk to the dining table and sit next to Jenni. “Jenni told me what happened,” Bri told me in English so that my dad didn’t understand what we were talking about. While eating my mom asked, “so how was everyone’s day today.” “Your son has something to say,” my dad said.

I choke on my food and began to panic feeling my heart beat faster and faster by the minute. “Tell her or I’ll tell her,” he said to me with a serious face. Bri steps in on the conversation and tells my dad, “Love is love dad and that’s how my baby brother came out.” “You knew about this Brisa and never told me,” my dad yelled at her. After back and forth arguing I ended up telling my mom about being bisexual and she took it much easier unlike my dad. She ended up telling me although she doesn’t like what I choose in my life she’ll still support me.

About three or four weeks go by and I get a text from my cousin (Eric) saying “hey dawg are you really gay?” I replied with, “What you mean dawg.” “My mom told me that your dad found out you were gay.” I leave him on seen for like 40 minutes before responding to his message. “Oh damn so he told everyone 😭,” I texted him. “So you’re actually gay,” he said. “I’m not gay Eric. I’m bisexual I still like girls. My life is ruined dude,” I reply to him. “How come,” he texted me. “Don’t you see. My dad found out I’m bisexual and now he told everyone about it. Nobody is going to like mo more,” I replied.

He invited me to his house to talk about how my dad found out. So I get up my bed and started to get my stuff to head out. But before I left my room, my dad came in my room and locked the door. “Oh. Hi…dad,” I said in low soft voice. He looked me up and down and I started to sit back down on my bed. “Where you think you’re going? You going to suck your boyfriend's dick again,” he said. “Uh… n… no dad,” I stuttered. “I’m going to Eric’s house for a bit,” I said.

He grabbed me by shoulder and apologized for the rough and rudeness treatment he’s been giving me. “At the end of the day you’re still my son straight or gay,” he said. “I’m not gay dad. I’m bisexual and I truly apologize for coming out like this and breaking your rules,” I said back. He reach out my hand and put a condom on my hand. “Whatever you do use protection,” he said. I was left shocked and I nervously laughed. After that I walked away and headed to my cousin’s house.

When I arrived I saw that Eric was home alone while his wife and daughter were at his mother in law’s house. Eric is a 32 year old Latino, tall and muscular. “Hey my gay cousin has arrived,” he joked. I awkwardly laughed and tell him I’m not gay. “If you’re a man and suck at dick at least once you’re gay in my opinion,” he said to me while leading me inside his house. “Well we’re Hispanic so I get what you’re saying since most of our people don’t care about the LGBTQ community. So if you like the same sex you’re considered gay,” I responded to his comment.

Although Eric is my cousin, 10+ years older than me, and has a family of three, I always had a sexual attraction to him because of his muscular body. “So how did all this happen with your dad,” he told me. “He caught me doing something I really don’t want to talk about,” I responded. “Come on Manny. Tell me I’m your cousin I won’t tell anyone,” he said trying to convince me to tell him. I was really stressing over it since I’m really upset that my whole family knows I like guys. “Fine don’t tell me it’s not my business anyway but I would tell you this. Do you know I like guys too,” he said smiling at me. I was left shocked by what he just said to me. Especially because he’s married to a woman.

“How. You literally have a wife and a daughter,” I exclaimed. “That doesn’t mean anything. I married my wife because I wanted to cover my true sexuality,” he told me. “Wow you’ve been doing stuff with guys all this time and managed to cover it up without nobody noticing,” I said. He scoots closer to me and tells me I can tell him anything since he told me his biggest secret. “My dad caught me sucking my boyfriend's dick. That’s how he found out I’m not straight,” I said. “Ha that must’ve been so crazy,” he said while laughing. I nervously laughed with me.

He grabs my thighs and tells me, “we should exchange our true feelings right now.” “No Eric you’re married. You’re my cousin. You would technically be cheating on your wife. What if we get caught, etc,” I said. “Come on dude. I had sex with Jessica (our cousin) on new year’s night,” he said reaching closer to my dick. I softly moan letting Eric touch me even more. “Eric….. This is so wrong in many ways,” I said pushing him away from my thighs and dick. “You were just getting turned on cuz. I won’t judge your size,” he chuckled.

He gets up and gets on his knees in front of my legs while I stayed seated on the couch. I unbutton my pants and let Eric take over and slowly pulls my pants down. I cover my mouth from being so shocked by what he’s doing to me. He then pulls my underwear down unveiling my small/average sized dick. “That makes so much sense why you like boys. Look at this cute little dick of yours,” he said while he edged me to get me hard. “Look how big it’s slowly getting,” he said while edging me. My dick grew from 3 inches to 5 inches. Once hard he started to jerk me off making me moan.

“Show me your true feelings Manny I want to see the real you,” he said while jerking me off. I began to moan louder while I cum on his hand. “Ahhhhh this feels good,” I moaned. Eric brings a towel to clean my mess. “You’re submissive aren’t you,” Eric said. “Uh yes,” I responded. “Let’s switch spots now and let’s see how good you’re using your hands,” he said while he took his clothes off. So I move so he can sit where I was just sitting and I get on my knees between his legs. “You’re so big Eric,” I said staring at his dick. His dick is 7+ inches with a 4 inch girth.

“Well why are you just staring at it. Play with it like a good boy,” he said. I grab with both hands and began to jerk him off. For the next three minutes it was complete silence with just the sound of his pre cum and his heavy breathing. Once I saw his pre cum drip on the side of his shaft I put the tip in my mouth and started jerking him harder. “Ohhhhh yesssss. Keep doing that,” he yelled. Five minutes later we get interrupted by phone. And I rushed to grab it. It was my dad who was calling.

“Oh no it’s my dad I got to go Eric I’m sorry,” I said. I got dressed and ran to my car where I returned the call to my dad. He instantly picked up the phone and respond with a low “hello.” I got no answer for a second and then I heard my dad say, “hey son can you come home I need to talk to you,” and then hang up. So I drove back home to see that nobody but my dad was there. I walked in to see him on the couch waiting for me. “Sit down you failed me again,” he said to me with a serious look. “How I was at Eric’s house the whole time,” I said. “Yeah jerking him off. I paid him to set this up and you failed to reject his offers,” he shouted.

My heart sank when he said that I began to tear up. “Don’t cry now and bend over,” he said. I obeyed him and bent over on the edge of the couch. He gets the same stick he used to beat me with when he caught me with Andrew. “If the last punishment wasn’t enough we’re going to have to do something different,” he said with a little laugh at the end. “What you mean dad,” I questioned him. “Pull your pants down,” he said. “Dad please not this again. How was I supposed to know you set this whole thing up,” I cried as I pull my pants down. He just looked at me waiting for me to do what he asked.

“I’m 20 years old dad I can make my own choices. Why are you doing this to me,” I said as I received the first whip on my bare ass. “Perfect. These welts make you change your mind about being gay,” he told me. He whipped me for 15 minutes straight. I wasn’t able to see how bad these welts were but any small touch and I felt the stinging pain.

It’s now been five months since my dad caught me and my boyfriend. Almost everyday my dad whips me when we’re alone telling me this treatment will end once I get you to change your mind about being “gay”. I’m still with Andrew and I’m technically enduring all the hits from dad until I move in with my boyfriend. My sisters moved out so I literally have no one to support me besides my mom but I haven’t told her anything my dad has been doing to me. This story really wasn’t about me having sex or anything. It really was just about how my life really is now with my dad. Why is it hard being part of the LGBTQ community as a Hispanic. Matter of fact why did I have to come out like this. And if anyone knows how to turn straight let me know because I really can’t take any more torture from my dad.